Suze Orman once warned that making over $800,000 would leave her nauseated—until she declined an Oprah appearance, which quelled her self‑doubt.

(SeaPRwire) –   While Suze Orman is now recognized as a confident and direct financial expert, this was not always the case. In the late 1990s, after the success of her first book, publishing houses were actively competing for the rights to her next bestseller.

The bidding for the publishing rights to The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom escalated to $800,000. However, instead of allowing the offers to continue rising, Orman insisted on concluding the bidding process.

Her literary agent expressed confusion, stating, “What are you talking about? This book is going to go to a million and a half.”

Orman, however, firmly responded, “If somebody pays me that much money to write a book, I’m gonna get sick to my stomach. You choose which publisher you want to go with. But I don’t want more than $800,000.”

Orman admits that if she could revisit that time, she would have allowed the bidding to reach millions. Reflecting on the past, she told , “I didn’t think I was worth it—I wasn’t a writer. I was a finance person.”

Suze Orman declined an offer from Oprah Winfrey after recognizing her self-worth

Today, Orman, who has since published 10 New York Times bestsellers, hosted her own show on CNBC, and most recently co-founded Securesave, is aware of her value.

“I know it big time,” she asserts.

Her journey to recognizing her worth began in 1998 when she was invited to appear on The Oprah Winfrey Show to discuss the spiritual aspects of divorce, drawing from a chapter in her book The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom titled “Practical and spiritual steps so you can stop worrying.”

Although Orman is religious, she felt this topic was outside her area of expertise.

“That is not me,” she told the show’s producer, Katy Davis. “Davis said nobody has ever refused to come on The Oprah Winfrey Show. I said, ‘Well, now somebody has.’”

Despite the surprise of those around her, she maintained her decision. “That’s when I was like, no, I know what I think and that’s what I’m going to follow.”

However, the pivotal moment when she truly found her voice occurred a few months later during a significant meeting with publisher Random House regarding the title of her third book, The Courage to be Rich.

“They said, that’s not a good book title,” Orman recounted, a statement that led her to leave the meeting and end her professional relationship with the company.

She explained to her manager at the time, “They have absolutely no understanding about money. It doesn’t take courage to be poor. Anybody can be poor. It’s easy to be poor. It takes courage to open up your bills, face your debt and face your mistakes, that takes courage. Break my contract. I refuse to write a book for them.”

Ultimately, Riverhead Books published the book in 1999 with her preferred title, The Courage to be Rich. The book became a New York Times bestseller, and Orman appeared on The Oprah Show 29 times. This experience underscored the importance of knowing and asserting one’s own opinions.

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Identifying your self-worth

While Orman has a clear understanding of her financial value, evidenced by selling 12,000 tickets every three minutes for her tour in South Africa alone, she also measures her worth more broadly.

“You know your worth when you know your own thoughts,” she stated. “When you keep asking everybody, ‘What do you think?’ and you’re constantly looking outside for what other people think or their approval you do not know your own worth.”

“I don’t ask anybody anything, I know what I think,” she added emphatically, her voice growing louder and more animated during the Zoom call. “I don’t give a damn what other people think of me… Because I know who I am and I like who I am.”

Orman suggests viewing your financial situation as a reflection of your organizational skills and responsibility, which can also be a way to assess your value in the workplace.

“If your money is a chaotic mess, that means you are a chaotic mess because your money can’t do anything without you—you’re the one who gets a paycheck, you’re the one who invests it, you’re the one who saves it, you’re the one who spends it,” she elaborated.

Orman recommends dedicating time to evaluate your income and expenses, and crucially, to assess the amount of debt you are carrying, as she believes it renders you “powerless.”

Without financial stability, it becomes exceedingly difficult to stand firm in your convictions and, consequently, to recognize your self-worth, she explained.

“If your money is totally in order, then you should understand that you’re probably more powerful than you think you are.”

This story was originally published on .com on July 18, 2023.

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